Proverbs 19:21 (NIV): “Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails.”

Let me spill the tea on my newfound singlehood, and why it’s got me feeling all kinds of fantastic.

First things first, being single doesn’t mean I’m planning to ride solo forever. Nope, not at all. I’m just chilling, trusting in God to send me that special someone when the time is right. And guess what? I’m not feeling lonely one bit. Independence? Oh, it’s got its perks, but honestly, it’s not my favorite part of being single. Juggling everything on your own, especially when you have children or child in the mix, can sometimes feel like a rollercoaster. The real gem of single life – self-discovery. Having time to uncover your passions and interests? That’s pure gold, my friends. I firmly believe that nurturing your relationship with yourself is the secret sauce to any successful connection. Trust me, I’ve learned this the hard way through trial and error. It’s like tending to a garden; love needs to grow.

It’s a powerful force, no doubt. Sometimes, your heart might lead you into less-than-ideal situations. If you find yourself in one of those spots, do it with a smile. After all, you’re the only one who’ll be hurt, and we’re all about keeping those vibes positive and depression at bay. Let’s talk freedom – being single can be like walking a tightrope. It’s exhilarating but can lead to some wild adventures. Remember, folks, stay safe, not sorry. Embrace the freedom while you can, because once you’re in a relationship, it’s all about considering your partner.

Single or not, personal growth and self-improvement should be everyone’s daily thing. Imagine a world where we’re all striving to be our best selves – now that’s the dream, isn’t it?

And career goals? Well, being single gives you a runway to chase ’em down with no distractions. But don’t forget your friendships; they’ll miss you when you’re boo’d up. Balancing it all can be a challenge, but hey, we’re all out here trying to build our own families, right?

Take this single time to dig deep into understanding yourself and your quirks. Self-care becomes the name of the game, especially in your 30s (like me). If you’re a sucker for love and relationships like I am, why not try out the dating scene? Tinder’s a great free option for the ladies, and if you’re feeling fancy, give match.com a whirl – I’ve heard tales of long-term love stories from them both.

Remember, being single has its perks, but I’ll confess, I’m all about that loving relationship. Give me someone caring, understanding, and honest any day. Looks? Meh, they’re not a deal-breaker. Confidence and self-worth, now that’s where it’s at for me. But most importantly, find contentment in your own company. I adore my alone time; it lets me indulge in all those weird things that most folks wouldn’t dare.

Some people aren’t big fans of flying solo, and that’s cool too. It could be how they were raised or just their personality. The key is to embrace your life and do what’s best for YOU. Enjoy this journey of singlehood, live your best life, and let’s toast to doing what’s right for you, always! 🥂

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Psalm 46:10 (NIV): “Be still and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth.”